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How to Surrender Your “Why” and Step Into Purpose (with Debbie Simmons) – Episode 555

In this episode, I’m sitting down with Debbie Simmons—also known as The Legacy Architect. Debbie shares her powerful story of loss, redemption, and building a life that truly impacts generations. From walking through unimaginable grief to founding Anchor Point, a thriving nonprofit that helps families grow and heal, Debbie opens up about what it means to trust God in the fog, lay down our “why,” and keep moving forward one small step at a time.

If you’ve ever asked God why, this conversation will help you shift your question to how do I thrive? and remind you that your deepest pain can become your greatest purpose.
In this episode, I’m sitting down with Debbie Simmons—also known as The Legacy Architect. Debbie shares her powerful story of loss, redemption, and building a life that truly impacts generations. From walking through unimaginable grief to founding Anchor Point, a thriving nonprofit that helps families grow and heal, Debbie opens up about what it means to trust God in the fog, lay down our “why,” and keep moving forward one small step at a time.

If you’ve ever asked God why, this conversation will help you shift your question to how do I thrive? and remind you that your deepest pain can become your greatest purpose.

You can listen to the full episode here 🡻

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How to Turn Pain into Purpose

In this episode, we dive deep into how to find healing, faith, and legacy on the other side of pain. Debbie shares practical wisdom and biblical truth about walking through trials, leading with strength, and trusting God’s plan when life doesn’t make sense.

  • ✦ Lay Down Your “Why”

    Debbie shares how clinging to the question “why” kept her stuck in grief—and how surrendering that question to God opened the door for healing and new purpose. Once she stopped demanding answers and asked instead, “How do I survive?” and later “How do I thrive?”, everything began to change.

  • ✦ Find the Next Best Step
    When you can’t see the whole path, just take one small step forward. Debbie encourages us to focus on movement over perfection—whether that’s getting out of bed, brushing your teeth, or simply choosing to believe tomorrow will be better.

  • ✦ Trust Faster
    After years of walking through trials, Debbie says her faith muscle has strengthened. She’s learned that while life doesn’t necessarily get easier, her ability to trust God gets faster—and that’s what helps her navigate new challenges with peace.

  • ✦ Lead Well in the Fire
    Debbie talks about what it looks like to lead when life feels chaotic and the world is watching. True leadership is built in the hard seasons. The way we walk through challenges can preach louder than any words.

  • ✦ Suffer Like Jesus, Not Like the Israelites
    We unpack what it means to go through a “wilderness season” with faith—choosing to respond like Jesus, who trusted and worshiped through the test, instead of like the Israelites, who complained and delayed their breakthrough.

  • ✦ Praise Through the Storm
    When everything feels dark, praise becomes your weapon. Debbie reminds us of Paul and Silas in prison—how their worship literally broke their chains. Worship shifts your perspective and strengthens your faith.

  • ✦ Be Intentional About Your Legacy
    Your legacy won’t just happen by accident. Debbie shares how everything changed when she decided to live intentionally—to build something that would outlive her and impact generations. You can do the same by being strategic with how you live, love, and lead.

How to Walk Through the Fog with Faith: Practical Takeaways

  • ✦ When you’re in a season of confusion, ask “How can I move forward?” instead of “Why is this happening?”

  • ✦ Start with one small, positive action each day—get up, get dressed, and do the next right thing.

  • ✦ Remember that trials often come before breakthrough—don’t quit when things feel the hardest.

  • ✦ When you’re in the fog, keep trusting that God is still writing a good story.

  • Praise through the storm—worship shifts your perspective and brings peace.

  • ✦ Lead by example; the way you handle suffering can become part of your legacy and your children’s faith story.

  • ✦ Be intentional about your influence—choose to write your legacy, not let it be written for you.

Scriptures Mentioned in This Episode

Romans 5:3–4 “Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.”

Matthew 5:45 “He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous.”

1 Peter 4:13 “But rejoice inasmuch as you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed.”

Acts 16:25–26 “About midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God, and the other prisoners were listening to them. Suddenly there was such a violent earthquake that the foundations of the prison were shaken. At once all the prison doors flew open, and everyone’s chains came loose.”

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Rachel Ngom is an entrepreneur passionate about the nations, having lived on three continents.

She hosts the Christian Entrepreneurs Rise Up podcast with over 500 episodes, empowering faith-driven entrepreneurs to build profitable businesses that serve God’s Kingdom.

Starting her first online business in 2012 and serving over 10,000 students, she grew it into a seven-figure company. In 2023, God called her to lay down that business and dedicate herself fully to ministry, exposing the dangers of New Age and worldly strategies in the Christian marketplace.

Now studying at the Global School of Supernatural Ministry and Global Awakening Seminary, she has witnessed Jesus’ healing power firsthand.

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